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Derek Lamont is the writer of “online pick up secrets“  I had to post his great article he just sent me over.  So many of you guys make these critical mistakes and I wanted to share it to all my Alpha Males.   Post your comments and let me know what you think.

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So… you’re on your favorite dating site… or maybe you’re on
Facebook…

And there she is.

The girl that catches your attention. But what do you do? Let me
tell you what 99% of guys do… they’ll message them and say
something really generic like…

“Hey! How’s it going! You look really interesting and I was
wondering if you would like to chat sometime! Hit me back!”

Or…

“Wow, you’re gorgeous. I bet you have all the guys out there
hitting on you… but hopefully this message will get through to
you because I would really like to treat you out sometime!”

Or…

“I’m the nicest guy ever if you give me the chance! You should
hit me back!”

I don’t care if you believe me – but it’s true. I guarantee you
the success rate of some of these generic messages are about near
1% if you’re lucky. And that’s if you have a really nice
profile…

So what’s the magic formula?

Well for starters…I did mention this before… you need for
PERFECT YOUR PROFILE before you get started.

Don’t message ANYONE until your online dating profile is perfect!

What do I mean by this? You need to get the right pictures and
right content in your profile. An attractive girl will not message
you back if you have NO picture and just the most generic responses
in your profile content.

Picture yourself from a girl’s perspective… you see some guy
message you on some dating website and he has NO pictures… can
you say creep?

What kind of pictures do you need to include? Typically speaking,
you need to include pictures that convey value – but not in the
way you’re thinking of… I’ll get to that a bit later.

(Or you can learn it here):

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The second thing you need to do is READ HER PROFILE. Too many
guys fail to personalize the first message, which is critical.

There are too many cut and paste messages out there.

An attractive girl gets as many as fifty messages a day! Do you
think she’s going to have time to read all of them? Absolutely
not.

You need something that catches their attention…the easiest way
to do this is to personalize your message! More on this later…

Finally, the third thing most guys do is… write way too damn
much!

Keep the message SHORT! Again, you need to appear like a
non-creepy and non-needy guy. Again, imagine being an attractive
girl… and you literally receive a full-fledged NOVEL!
How weird is that to her? You barely know her and already you’re
willing to invest a massive amount of time for her?

She doesn’t deserve that yet.

I give you all the tips you need on my website! So you’re in
luck.

Go check them out right now at

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You won’t be disappointed.

~ Derek Lamont

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One from the most powerful and least used attraction techniques would be to be a great story teller. Women love the Alpha Males who can tell a great story,and make them laugh, even when they shouldn’t.

But most alpha males aren’t great story tellers, even when it is a learnable skill. What do they do incorrect?

They just simply give up because they believe their stories are boring. You see, details engage the thoughts, and concentrate it on what you are saying. Then, the woman you’re telling the story to can really “see” herself getting there.

For example,  I can tell a story about how I ate a really nice chocolate dessert for dinner last night.

But if I say, “The chocolate dessert was so good that I felt like I had an explosion of joy in mouth and can feel the goodness going down my throat’”

What’s the distinction within the mental images that come to your thoughts whenever you examine the above statements back to back? They’re vastly different, and 1 is significantly more detailed than the other.

Not just that, in the second description I use colorful, “story informing language”– you receive the idea there’s a lot more to come, and you want to know more about Bob and his obvious misadventures. Story informing is a really powerful attraction technique. Women adore males who can make them laugh on a constant and constant foundation, and very few men can. Story informing can also be a great vehicle for introducing sexual innuendo and obtaining women to believe such thoughts and link them to you.

Also, it’s a hell of a great deal of enjoyable. When you get great at informing stories, not only does your audience laugh, you laugh as well. All of a sudden attraction becomes a great deal of enjoyable, and it gets a lot easier. Allow it to be a stage to master the art of story telling… it will provide you with an unfair advantage over other Beta Males

Related articles by J Mack

• Storyteller Spirit: 3 Signs When You Have It. . . And When You Don’t (storytellingadventures.blogspot.com)
• Social Media as Storytelling (cloudave.com)
• How to be a good story teller? (siglaptoastmasters.wordpress.com)
• Social Media as Storytelling (techwag.com)
• the swell season…love begins and ends with “strict joy” (current.com)