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Derek Lamont is the writer of “online pick up secrets“  I had to post his great article he just sent me over.  So many of you guys make these critical mistakes and I wanted to share it to all my Alpha Males.   Post your comments and let me know what you think.

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So… you’re on your favorite dating site… or maybe you’re on
Facebook…

And there she is.

The girl that catches your attention. But what do you do? Let me
tell you what 99% of guys do… they’ll message them and say
something really generic like…

“Hey! How’s it going! You look really interesting and I was
wondering if you would like to chat sometime! Hit me back!”

Or…

“Wow, you’re gorgeous. I bet you have all the guys out there
hitting on you… but hopefully this message will get through to
you because I would really like to treat you out sometime!”

Or…

“I’m the nicest guy ever if you give me the chance! You should
hit me back!”

I don’t care if you believe me – but it’s true. I guarantee you
the success rate of some of these generic messages are about near
1% if you’re lucky. And that’s if you have a really nice
profile…

So what’s the magic formula?

Well for starters…I did mention this before… you need for
PERFECT YOUR PROFILE before you get started.

Don’t message ANYONE until your online dating profile is perfect!

What do I mean by this? You need to get the right pictures and
right content in your profile. An attractive girl will not message
you back if you have NO picture and just the most generic responses
in your profile content.

Picture yourself from a girl’s perspective… you see some guy
message you on some dating website and he has NO pictures… can
you say creep?

What kind of pictures do you need to include? Typically speaking,
you need to include pictures that convey value – but not in the
way you’re thinking of… I’ll get to that a bit later.

(Or you can learn it here):

==> online pick up secrets

The second thing you need to do is READ HER PROFILE. Too many
guys fail to personalize the first message, which is critical.

There are too many cut and paste messages out there.

An attractive girl gets as many as fifty messages a day! Do you
think she’s going to have time to read all of them? Absolutely
not.

You need something that catches their attention…the easiest way
to do this is to personalize your message! More on this later…

Finally, the third thing most guys do is… write way too damn
much!

Keep the message SHORT! Again, you need to appear like a
non-creepy and non-needy guy. Again, imagine being an attractive
girl… and you literally receive a full-fledged NOVEL!
How weird is that to her? You barely know her and already you’re
willing to invest a massive amount of time for her?

She doesn’t deserve that yet.

I give you all the tips you need on my website! So you’re in
luck.

Go check them out right now at

==> online pick up secrets

You won’t be disappointed.

~ Derek Lamont

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I know there is always lots of hype from these young rappers that claim to be a pimp.  Lets be real.  Pimping ain’t about making it rain.   That ain’t pimpin that’s simpin.  Let me repeat you might call yourself a pimp because you got lot of girls, but your simp if you spend money on these hoes.  So guess who just got pimped!!!  LOL, these hoes are the real the pimps for taking your cash out your pockets.

So now lets get back to the roots and find out how the pimp game really goes down.  So let me share with you a guy named Iceberg Slim.

From Wikipedia:

Best known as an author of gritty tales of street life and hustling, Iceberg Slim (Robert Beck) sold over six million copies of his books, the most popular being Pimp: The Story of My Life. Since many authors before him had seen fit to record and release spoken word albums, Slim followed suit in 1976 with Reflections, which found him reciting his lurid vignettes over suitably funky backing from the Red Holloway Quartet. The street-tough pimp persona projected by Slim proved highly influential to hip-hop, especially two artists who paid tribute to him through their own names, Ice-T and Ice Cube. Slim passed away in 1992 at the age of 73.

So you wanna find out how the real pimp game is?  Wanna know why people like ICE-T and Bishop Magic Don Juan honors.

Quotes from Iceberg Slim’s book:

A good pimp doesn’t get paid for screwing. He gets his pay-off for always having the right thing to say to a whore right on lightning tap. I knew my four whores were flapping their ears to get my reaction to this beautiful bitch. A pimp with an overly fine bitch in his stable has to keep his game tight. Whores constantly probe for weakness in a pimp.

I fitted a scary mask on my face and said, in a low, deadly voice, “Bitch, are you insane? No bitch in this family calls any shots or muscles me to do anything. Now take your stinking yellow ass upstairs to a bath and some shut-eye. Get in the street at noon like I told you.”

A pimp must be skilled at playing on a woman’s vulnerabilities. In fact, he assesses her psychological state to determine if she is a good candidate for exploitation. The true talents of a pimp however, are in his ability to keep his women happy, command money, and portray a deep mysterious and somewhat mean demeanor about him, one that conveys the message not to cross him. He is then said to be “cold-blooded,” able to turn off any warm feelings and loving affection in exchange for certain emotional and physical cruelty

There are several rules that one must be willing to follow in order to be a successful pimp. The most paramount rule in the pimping game is, “the pimp must get paid”. This means there can’t be any “shame in your game

THis is some beautiful pimp shit. So i highly recommend you check out his book. PIMP: The story of my life. It’ll change the way you think about your approach with women.  This is what I mean when I talk about the ALPHA MALE type shit.

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Watch out for lies when online dating. There are certain things which people commonly lie about within their profile. The most common include: Height, weight, age, and occupation. Also be aware that people may embellish a little bit about themselves to make themselves sound better. For example, they may over exaggerate their travel experience, college education, etc… As mentioned before, even some pictures can’t be trusted. Some people use old photos of themselves because they looked better back then. Most important, be aware that some people lie about their relationship status. Married people have been known to state they are single on online dating sites.

Be careful about sharing your email As mentioned, most online dating sites allow you to use an anonymous internal communication system. Make sure you take full advantage of that. If you do start to feel comfortable with someone and would like to share an email address with them, don’t use your regular email address. Set up a free email address that you use strictly for your online dating activities. You can easily obtain one through yahoo, hotmail, gmail, etc…

Be careful about sharing your personal information It’s easy to get sweptup and excited about the possibility of a new romance. However, the anonymous nature of online dating sites makes it just as (if not) more important than ever to protect your personal information. Don’t share your full name. Never give out the details of exactly where you work, or go to school. You can say something like “I work at a major downtown law firm.” If they ask, “Which one?” Just politely tell them you’d rather not say until you get to know them a little better. Most people will understand and respect your decision to not share. Don’t ever give out your address. Be very careful about giving out your telephone number. This is especially true of your cell phone number.

Don’t get too serious too fast It’s best to just keep things on the lighter side for a little while when you first meet someone from an online dating site. Keeping things friendly and light will help you to get to know the other person a lot better than just diving into a relationship.
Using an online dating service will help you to find your ideal person for a relationship. By using it to its full potential you won’t have to just “settle” for someone.Unfortunately, there are some people of questionable character in this world. You’re just as likely to meet someone who is up to no good at the gym, bar/club, or even at work as you are at an online dating site. The only difference with online dating sites is the level of anonymity that is provided for users. It’s a dual edge sword. It helps protect the innocent and allows those of dubious character to get away with a little more. These pitfalls and dangers weren’t mentioned to scare you. Online dating sites provide safe, fun, and exciting ways to meet people. Just keep these tips in mind and use common sense. The majority of people on online dating sites are legitimately searching for someone they can connect with, have fun with, and maybe even fall in love with. Maybe that special person they’re waiting for is you!

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